Marriage is about individuality and relationship. We all know that people are not perfect and we are tempted to think that by uniting the two "halves" we produce a unity and something perfect. Unfortunately, I even heard that marriage is a "50/50 business." What a disaster would that be! Each one of us is not a "half" human being, each one of us is the whole human being, and searching for the other half to restore our wholeness, would be a waste of time at best, or a total downfall, also called "fiasco." The bible wisely speaks about "helpmate," rather than "half." Marriage is not a 50/50 business, it is always a 100% or a total failure.