Did you notice an important detail in the miracle of Cana? The Blessed Mother asked Jesus to change water into wine. Jesus answered with a remark which sounded almost rude. "My hour has not yet come." What he really meant was: I understand they have no wine, but you are talking to the wrong person. The English idiom would be: "You are barking at the wrong tree." God may show himself in our lives in many different ways, shape, and form, and we reply as Jesus did, "Yes, but you are ringing the door bell at the wrong door, you mean to ring at the next door neighbor, not me." God rings again and says: "It is you whom I want."